Trifling a** people #smh#

Can someone explain to me why ladies act so ... darn STUPID?!
And you, men...trifling ass individuals #smh.

So I was having a very interesting conversation with my cousin and my friend, Miss A ;) yesterday evening. So Miss A. tells me about someone she knows that was dating a dude (let's call this someone, Mz DumbMuch). Mz DumbMuch starts dating this dude, Romeo-la-swag, whom she is well aware recently broke up with one of her friends. Anyways, seems like she got to la-la land sooner than the conception of a baby and guess what?! conception of a baby was definitely the result.

So Mz DumbMuch has had a few ups and downs with Romeo-la-swag during their relationship (who doesn't, right?!) But then she gets pregnant, and as any lady out of wedlock, got very much confused on what to do: keep it or abort. A close family member advised her to keep it and promised to assist in taking care of the child with her (as she didn't have a child of her own). So her decision;

Mz DumbMuch: "I'm keeping this baby." :)

Weeks later, GUESS WHAT people (hehe!)
... She takes the baby out (#AngryFace# 'cos i'm against abortion >:-\ ).

Now HERE'S WHERE THE TRIFLING PART BEGINS.

Mz DumbMuch is having a heated argument with Romeo-la-swag. A mutual (female) friend walks in and Romeo is yelling over DumbMuch saying he wants to explain himself because he doesn't see anything wrong with what he has said and why she's so upset.

Romeo: "What's wrong with you? Shut up, lemme get a word in... What I said was I would marry her now. But what if two years down the line I actually find someone I love?"

HUH?!

Dude, big ups to being honest...but WTF?! What if you find someone you love? Then why the hell are you proposing marriage and how the heck is there NOTHING wrong with that statement?!

Someone please help me out here. Naija (Nigerian) men are the most trifling ass dudes on the planet. They marry for the worst reasons EVER!

Marriage?	Reason
·         I have a chubby wife, but I mess around with skinny women. ·       We've been together for a minute. It’s only right.	·         No one is looking at my wife so I have nothing to worry about …#selfishmuch ·         She’s either pregnant, you’ve been pressured, or you can’t stand being alone at night …#selfishmuch

In summary, I do not completely blame these trifling LOSERS... Why? Here are my reasons:

1) Why would you date someone not too long after he ends it with your friend?
2) What made your friend and Romeo-la-swag break-up in the first place? (Research woman...it's not only for college kids)
3) Women have always been somewhat taken for granted, but why do they stupidly let it happen...in the worse ways too.

Enlighten me someone. I'm just so irritated at these senseless acts.